Have you ever been in a relationship where you just can’t seem to walk away? No matter what your friends are telling you, no matter what you are telling yourself, you just can’t seem to end it. So, what is going on?
What’s happening is that you are in a karmic relationship.
So what is a karmic relationship? And how do you know when you’re in one?
Simply put, a karmic relationship means that you have been together before, sometimes many times before. And from those other lifetimes there are unresolved issues and emotions that have carried over into this lifetime is well.
So how do you know when you’re in a karmic relationship?
Have you ever met someone that you are instantly attracted to, or instantly dislike? Sometimes you meet someone and you feel as though you’ve always known them. These are the signals that let you know that you have karma together and that karma can be good or bad, positive or negative. If it’s a romantic relationship, you are almost compelled to see one another again. And that can be where the trouble begins!
One of the things that comes hand-in-hand with karmic relationship is intense emotion, when things are right, they are so very, very, right! And when things go wrong, it feels devastating! When both of you are willing to look at the situation and come up with better ways of doing things, the relationship moves forward. It becomes rewarding, and satisfying in ways you never thought possible!
But what often happens is that one person is willing to change, and the other is not.
And so the cycle begins again. The person who is willing to change gives too much. This person will hold on much longer than he or she should and ends up giving away too much of themselves. When they try to end the relationship, not only do they feel the sadness from the present situation, they also feel the accumulated sadness and loss from many lifetimes.
By now you may have recognized yourself in the description you have been reading. If so, please remember we all have karmic ties with more than one person in our lifetime.
Once karmic relationships begin to show up in your life there will be more of them
The thing to remember about karmic relationships is that we all have more than one of them in any given lifetime. Once one shows up, another is certain to follow.
It may require a combination of courage and common sense. But when you (or someone you know) find yourself settling for second best, walking away is the smartest thing you can do.
And walking away is stepping through the doorway to the beginning of the relationship you want and deserve!